I’ve long admired him and somehow I imagined that an academic superhero like him would manage to live forever. This was stupid, I know, but that’s the way I felt. His diagnosis was deeply upsetting to me.
Of course one is sad when a good friend is diagnosed with a
terminal disease. One is sad for one’s
friend, for the suffering that’s bound to ensue for him and his family, and one
is sad for oneself, for the prospect of losing him. My wife and I attended his wedding reception,
he and his wife spent a weekend with us, and we’ve spent weekends with them,
memories that I treasure. But he’s been
more than a friend. He’s been a hero to
me and that’s one of the roots of my severe reaction to this news. The other source is that I've not yet come to terms with the mortality of those I love. I know I'm mortal but somehow I expect my friends to live forever.
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